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Paula M Flaherty
  • In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made to The Midwest Jesuits, C/O Kevin Flaherty SJ P.O. Box 6713, Carol Stream, IL 60197-6713. Donations here will be intended for El Agustino Parish in Lima, Peru. Midwest Jesuits P.O. Box 6713, Carol Stream, IL 60197
  • The Midwest Jesuits
    P.O. Box 6713,
    Carol Stream, IL 60197-6713
  • In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made to The Chordoma Foundation, PO Box 2127, Durham, NC 27702.
  • The Chordoma Foundation
    P.O. Box 2127
    Durham, NC 27702
  • In lieu of flowers memorials may be made to Chicago Jesuit Academy. Chicago Jesuit Academy (CJA) is a full-scholarship lower and middle school for young men from modest economic backgrounds who could not otherwise access a well-resourced, faith-based coll
  • Chicago Jesuit Academy
    5058 W Jackson Blvd
    Chicago, IL 60644

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Pat I am so sorry my prayers are with you and your family. I wasn't able to attend the funeral in person but did get to watch it on line. I am so grateful that I was able to meet you and Paula and spend time with your mom. Paula went through a lot and now she is at peace with the Lord.

Posted by: Martha Kunkemoeller - Cincinnati, OH - Family Friend   Dec 02, 2020

I only got to meet Paula a few times, but every time I did she brought happiness and togetherness with her. I can see her legacy in my good friend Kevin. Selin and I are proud to call ourselves friends of the Flaherty family, and our hearts go out to you all in this difficult time.

Posted by: Brian Schmidt - Bolingbrook, IL - Family Friend   Dec 01, 2020

You are indeed blessed to have had such a wonderful person in your life.
Every time Tom and I would see her, she was smiling, engaged and such a delight. I know the last few years have been so painful for all of you. But God will welcome her into his arms so easily. She was such a role model for all of us and her legacy will live on in her grand children. We send all of the love we can to you and her family...

Posted by: Cheryl Popp - Cincinnati, OH - Family Friend   Dec 01, 2020

Paula was someone who did not know how to take, she only knew how to give. May your reunion wih your Mom be a joyful one

Posted by: Richard Parker - CINCINNATI, OH - Family Friend   Dec 01, 2020

She walk this world if Jesus was walking with her.
She is walking with Jesus now.

Great person.

And has a great partner an d husband

Posted by: Thomas Hudepohl - Family   Dec 01, 2020
On a girls trip to Nashville, IN with the Ladies Nite Out group

Paula was always so friendly and upbeat. She was always ready and willing to take on the big projects at St. Ignatius and she would always help anytime I asked her to help me on a project. I enjoyed talking over dinner and having fun on our vacations. We will miss your sweet smiling face, easy disposition and your fun personality. A life well lived! Rest easy Paula!

Posted by: Eileen Waldeck - Cincinnati, OH - Friend   Nov 30, 2020

We love you, Paula. Give our Mom a big hug. Our thoughts and prayers are with the whole family. While we cannot be with ya'll for the funeral, we are with you in spirit. Paula was a real fighter, a rock of the family, and an inspiration to all of us.

Posted by: Patty and Cathy Gergen - SARASOTA, FL - Family   Nov 30, 2020

Pat, I am so sorry for your loss. As time goes by I wish I could tell you that it goes away completely, but there will always be a part of you that will remember something so simple as a touch, a look, a smile, a phrase, a laugh & the tears will flow & your heart will ache. You may not want to get out of bed, then don't, take your time to grief the way that is best

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Posted by: SHERRY STOKES - LAWRENCEBURG, IN - Family Friend   Nov 30, 2020

Like St Paul, Paula fought the good fight. Blessed be those who have been there through it all. May she rest in peace.

Posted by: Mike Hentz - Bedford, TX - Family   Nov 30, 2020

We are so sorry for your loss! Paula was a remarkable and kind woman and will be sorely missed. We hope that your fond memories are a comfort for you! Love , Denise , Jerry and Michael Judge

Posted by: Denise Judge - Family   Nov 30, 2020